Resources
Emery’s Alternative Parenting Plans (Child Custody Schedules)
Plans
Message for parents about children’s reactions to separation and divorce
https://www.youtube.com/embed/cKcNyfXbQzQ The speaker talks about co-parenting as a best-case scenario for children and I would like to point out that although that is almost always true, it is not a best-case scenario when there has been power and control and /or...
How to talk with your children about your separation/divorce in easy steps.
https://lisaherrick.com/separation-and-divorce-work/guide-to-telling-the-children-about-the-divorce/
Tools for Separated and Divorced Parents
Here are some links to Apps and Websites that assist parents in scheduling time with children, vacations, holidays keeping track of kid's activities, expenses, parent communication, etc. Some of these tools are free, others charge a small fee. Cozi Parents of one...
Emery' Study re: Mediation vs Lawyer Negotiated vs Litigated Outcomes
Emery’s Twelve year study illustrating the effectiveness of agreements reached in divorce mediation vs lawyer negotiated agreements vs litigated/court ordered terms.
Message to all separated parents
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IMjpCQBH8zU
VT’s Coping With Separation and Divorce
VT's Coping With Separation and Divorce, A Parenting Seminar - This is the four hour workshop required by the Vermont Superior Court's Family Division for parents of minor children who are separating/ divorcing and filing a motion with the court. This workshop...
Emery’s Bill of Rights for children of divorce
Emery points out how we need to be thinking of our children as we go through this process, not only in the beginning but in years to come. Emery